What does it really mean to be an adult

What does it really mean to be an adult — and when do you become one?

Adulthood is not simply measured by age. The legal system may set the bar at 18, but that number is more about convenience and control than true maturity. Age alone doesn’t make someone grown.

Being an adult is defined by behavior and mindset:

• Taking accountability for your actions

• Showing respect, especially toward those who came before you

• Practicing empathy and understanding others’ perspectives

• Acting responsibly in both small and big matters

• Learning to regulate emotions and suppress unnecessary aggression

Turning 18 doesn’t magically make you an adult. Some people only begin to embody these qualities in their thirties, while others may take even longer. Adulthood isn’t a number — it’s a level of character.

David John