Everything begins in your mind. What you hold there will manifest in your life — without exception. Keep believing what you’ve always believed, and you’ll keep living what you’ve always lived. Nothing changes until you do.
Writings
By the desire to move and inspire, I write...
Time does not exist. Time is simply something we use as a measurement tool — a way to relate our movement and actions (and inactions). In a sense, as we move, we move time itself. This is also why time seems to move differently when we are active versus when we are still.
Dealing with the past of your partner is unhealthy — after all, you are not the same person you once were, right? That’s why healing from it is of the utmost importance before starting a new relationship.
In a relationship, both partners must contribute in whatever ways they can. Contribution is not always financial — it can be emotional support, care for the home, raising the children, or simply showing up with presence and effort.
Being a parent comes with the responsibility of raising your children. But many parents caught up in their role, while forgetting they are lovers too.
When a man takes care of himself on every level, it’s simply called being an adult. So why is it that women in the same position often feel the need to announce themselves as “independent women”?
Society often reduces the idea of “provider” to money. Many believe that a man’s worth is measured only by how much he earns. But the truth is, provision goes far deeper than finances.
Adulthood is not simply measured by age. The legal system may set the bar at 18, but that number is more about convenience and control than true maturity. Age alone doesn’t make someone grown.
Most people spend more energy searching for a partner than they do discovering their true purpose. But if you don’t know who you are or what you are here to create, how can you recognize the soul that is meant to walk beside you?
We are living in an era where many people are shifting their energy away from constant conflict and toward building their own path — their “grind”.
If you truly want to understand relationships, you need to think in terms of frequency. Sometimes you meet someone and, even though the connection feels perfect in that moment, you eventually grow apart.
Many people think people-pleasers are simply kind and selfless, but beneath the surface lies a deeper truth: they are often validation seekers.
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