Alignment before connection

Most people spend more energy searching for a partner than they do discovering their true purpose. But if you don’t know who you are or what you are here to create, how can you recognize the soul that is meant to walk beside you?

When you haven’t aligned with your purpose, relationships often become distractions rather than amplifiers. You might end up with someone who fills a void temporarily but doesn’t actually resonate with your higher path.

And here’s the deeper truth: everything in life is energy, vibration, and frequency. Every intimate connection you make impacts your energetic field. When you connect with someone physically, emotionally, or spiritually, you’re not just sharing a moment — you’re exchanging frequency. Their energy can either raise you, drain you, or keep you stagnant.

So before you rush to find “the one,” ask yourself: Have I found myself? Do I know my frequency, my mission, my purpose? Because once you are in alignment, the right soul doesn’t just appear — they harmonize with you.

David John