Understanding relationships

If you truly want to understand relationships, you need to think in terms of frequency.

Sometimes you meet someone and, even though the connection feels perfect in that moment, you eventually grow apart. This happens because we don’t all evolve at the same pace. When the gap in frequency becomes too wide, separation becomes inevitable.
It makes sense, doesn’t it? True love often means letting go. Holding on to someone or something that no longer serves you is tied to ego, not love. Be mindful not to let past pain and trauma echo into your present or future. Remember: love and emotions are two separate things.

People often love the version of you that makes them feel comfortable. When you outgrow that version, you also outgrow the relationship and the role they play in your life.

If you are broken, you tend to attract broken partners (or a healer) who mirrors your wounds until you choose to heal yourself. Only then are you truly ready. And if you cannot connect with your partner on an emotional level, it’s a sign that you simply don’t belong together.

David John