The Truth About People-Pleasers

Many people think people-pleasers are simply kind and selfless, but beneath the surface lies a deeper truth: they are often validation seekers. Their need to say “yes”, avoid conflict, and put others first is rarely just about generosity — it’s about securing approval, acceptance, or love. This constant search for validation can lead them to neglect their own needs, lose touch with their identity, and depend on external opinions for their self-worth.

David John