Trauma bonding isn’t love.. it’s loyalty to pain. It’s the attachment that forms when fear, hope, and survival are all mixed into one emotional pattern. Unhealed childhood wounds make us attach to familiarity, even when it hurts. Emotional highs and lows feel like passion, but are actually trauma reactivation.
Archive for November, 2025
Our beliefs — both conscious and unconscious — shape our experiences. If you truly believe something is easily attainable, it will manifest accordingly.
To be your authentic self within a relationship is essential. In order to meet someone who is not on your level, you must lower your frequency — and that is never worth it, as you will always come to realize in the end.
Every moment you allow someone who cannot meet you on your level is connected to insecurity.
Pain, when rooted in emotion, is always connected to trauma and insecurity. The same applies to pleasing behavior and all forms of validation-seeking. Even the attitude of disapproving your authentic self is a reflection of inner insecurity.
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